Friday, May 16, 2014

The Love Project 2014: Bernard Franklin

Last Friday, I met Deborah, and she works for the VA. Today, I saw her on the E Line at 3rd and Columbia. We chatted, well, actually she talked and I just said, “Oh! That’s nice” every few minutes.

Sitting next to her was a gentleman who kept randomly interjecting comments that didn’t make any sense. She got off at Pike Street, but he stayed. And he decided that I was to be the beneficiary of his commentary.

Now, throughout my bus riding adventures, I "thought" I had been doing a good job of listening to the Holy Spirit in regards to The Love Project and the people who come across my path. And then this happened... and I doubted it all.

From 3rd and Pike to 160th Ave and Aurora, he talked. Bernard Franklin talked. And talked and talked. Because apparently I have a face that says, “Please talk to me. I am a really good listener and want to know everything about you.”

He first told me he was going to go home, take a shower, get dressed in his nice shoes (insert name brand I cannot remember) and then head back downtown Seattle to eat at The Crab Pot and walk around the waterfront.

He then proceeded to tell me he had just finished renovating a basement apartment and it had taken three weeks. Oh, and did I mention that this was the first weekend he had to himself in three months? And that he hung four sheets of drywall on the ceiling by himself?

He asked me where I worked. I told him, and he shared with me that he and his brothers volunteered at the Mission. He shared they served meals and that his brother who owns a BBQ food truck took BBQ to the Mission. Which led to the fact that his other brother worked at the Salvation Army. AND, that he is one of 18 children…. Good heavens.

There were several references to his singleness and that it was hard. But that was mixed in with his prior residency in Tukwila, living in the Tri-Cities and the passing of his daughter.

As he continued to tell me about his business (car detailing and construction renovation), he gave me one of his business cards. Whatever, that was fine. Networking is great and everything. Then began to delve into even MORE stories about his two employees who left him asleep in his office overnight. I heard about his contracts with Boeing, Swedish Hospital, and Group Health.

Did I mention that he also details monster trucks? Cause he apparently does that as well.
Up until this point, I have not asked him a single question. All the information has been voluntary.

Then it gets weird. He tells me I should call him sometime and he can take me out to dinner.

Um, what? I am almost positive this guy is 65+. Is he just really lonely and wants to eat with anyone, or is he trying to hit on a 26-year-old young woman? I am slightly confused, but trying to give the benefit of the doubt.

It is at this point he starts rambling again. I learn he wants to open a car detailing shop in Shoreline, but it would be soo much work and he doesn’t know if he wants to do that.

He told me about his baby. A ‘66 Mercedes Benz. He never drives it if it is dirty. He washed it in the snow, and if a bird poops on his car? He will pull over, get a rag out of the trunk and clean it off before he continues driving. Because why? He hates dirty cars.

As we are pulling up to the stop at 155th, I realize I am almost home, and I am thrilled. Lord Jesus, I know I should feel more loving, but this guy is talking my ear off. Just as I was putting myself into a full-blown guilt trip for wanting him to hush, Bernard Franklin did me a favor and removed every ounce of guilt from my mind.

Mr. Bernard “I Am Old Enough To Be Your Grandfather” Franklin tells me again to call him. Says he will take me out to dinner because eating alone isn’t fun. Um, I love eating alone. I get seconds, thirds and fourths.

“I’m serious, I’ll take you out to dinner and then maybe I will send you flowers. But I won't send a card because I want to keep you guessing, heh heh heh.”

My stop is usually 165th. I got off at 160th. And walked.

 #theloveproject2014

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